Part 2

To kick something off, I have picked a fascinating and unheeded topic to draw something up in the following note. I have tried my best to eschew the confusion and misinterpretation between “nature” and “demeanour”.

I have came across many folks who out of the blue come to a head. The reason is their deportment. Appropriately, what we believe as our nature and hesitate to change might portray our self as a stubborn and arrogant asshole. Unfortunately, the ludicrous part in it is that the person who inferred this in us has stuck himself unintentionally in this dilemma. Why because, he deliberately spurned to answer “why is it so?” To buttress my opinion, let me sketch a clearer picture for you.

Think about the young chap who is a victim of the sheer parental pressure. The power of discrimination between black and white has been snatched from his mind and molded in a way that can retrieve only thrusted notions in trying times. He feels boozing is sordid. Had it been the case where he is really cautious about the statutory remarks, that cajoled his conscience to refrain from having such habit, it’s fair enough. But when he is left with full liberty, he start to be carried off the feet .Is it merely the influence of bad blood or the adrenaline rush to relish worldly pleasures??? [ :? ]

It‘s paradox!!!! You conceit to be of well natured when you are in the shadow of well-beings. The peculiar thing of flesh and blood is that their unaltered .What change with circumstances is our notion and vision about the same thing, which reflects through conduct and attitude.

Think about an Indian girl who dwells in a so called “orthodox” society. She believes herself to be a conservative girl because of being curbed by the social ethics, customs and taboos. Ask her for an out, you will get battered and bruised. [:)] She thinks, it’s her nature just because she doesn’t want to get into hot water. Contrary to it, when she has given the carte blanche to lead her own life, she hounds behind the western culture. Ask her the same question now, I bet you will be in cloud nine. Her nature didn’t alter over the time, what changed is her notion. She always fancied the same dream, but amidst the neighbors. She discriminates between people who might invite derision to relationship and who not. Why so obdurate??? Why to whistle in the dark?? If you grapple in this imbroglio, give yourself chances till you put two and two together. Hence the epitome is, it’s not nature, what you are urged to alter but your conduct as per your heart says.[:)]